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On a trip to San Francisco, the quintessential "gay mecca" of the USA I was on a bus making my way over towards Haight area (then planning to go visit Castro street aka the actual gayest part of San Francisco) there were a group of men on the bus going on a bigoted rant specifically about homosexual men ruining the country and going to hell and all that fun stuff on the LGBTQ+ agenda.
Like, I'd expect to hear that kind of stuff in the middle of Oklahoma's rural hellscape (sans the bus part). But in San Francisco of all places?
people like that are everywhere. they are probably your friends and neighbors.
most of my girlfriends who claim to be liberal progressives were rabidly racist or anti-lgbt. because i was their boyfriend they could 'tell me how they really felt' while they lied through their teeth in public to other people. the hypocracy was mind-blowing, but it's incredibly common for people to do this.