The fact you can't reflect on how your own words come across is a huge red flag
Good luck @EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com
BangCrash
joined 2 years ago
The original comment was
"Anything that helps people that want to have children is good"
Your response was
"As long as people who don't want to have children aren't pressured. Not everyone is interested in parenting, and that needs to be accepted."
At no point was anyone's talking about forcing people to have kids. You've built a strawman and are arguing about something that nobody is talking about.
You. You have made it about yourself and are now trying to pretend you didn't.
Exactly it's not about you.
So why are you commenting that some people DONT WANT KIDS and this shouldnt be forced on us.
You are making it about yourself.
Sure but that's a totally different discussion than the other commentor making it about themselves
How have you taken a good thing for people and turned it into a bad thing for you.
Can't you just be happy for others without making it about yourself?
What ever reason china is doing is doesn't negate the fact no one of forcing or pressuring people to have kids.
What the country is doing is making it easier for those that choose to have kids to do so.
Lots people want to have kids but can't because life is so goddamn expensive at the moment.
This allows them to do that.
You are completely free to choose not to. To focus on and say "but what about me I don't want kids" has absolutely no bearing on the fact that lots of people do.
I'm happy for you to not have kids. I hope you grow old and boring. It sounds like we'd be better of if you dont procreate anyway.