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Searching for my people, I guess.

My partner hates it when I say that Die Hard is my favourite X-mas movie. Or, that I only want socks, underwear, and egg nog. She's lactose intolerant. Maybe I'm just X-mas intolerant.

Anyway, have at ye scallywags! Vent your frustrations! Build me an anti-X-mas list! I'm already celebrating New Year's over here.

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[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 hour ago

It is a shame that Die Hard isn't considered a Christmas movie as much as Home Alone is when John McClaine is using violence to kill people who are trying to harm his family while trying to reunite his family while Kevin McCallister is using violence to defend property rights after wishing his family away and being mostly correct about that wish.

[–] Kcap@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

I enjoy getting a quart of egg nog once a year. I truly only crave it once a year because it's so heavy and overpowering flavor-wise, but once a year it's perfect.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Bach's Weihnachtsoratorium.

[–] underreacting@literature.cafe 1 points 7 hours ago

The music piece Shchedryk and any dish with saffron in it.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 15 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Calling it X-mas has to be pretty high up there.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

It's been spelled like that for centuries. It comes from the Greek letter Chi, the first letter of the word Christós. The first English document (that we know of) using it is from around 1100 CE.

[–] Saapas@piefed.zip 1 points 6 hours ago

Do you feel like that lessons their annoyance about it?

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I laughed pretty hard when Christina Aguilara started calling herself Xtina

[–] Saapas@piefed.zip 1 points 6 hours ago

In Age of Empires community I was wondering what the xbows were but it was a shorthand for crossbows.

[–] LeapSecond@lemmy.zip 16 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I usually hate Christmas songs except for Carol of the Bells. That's just an amazing song regardless of the Christmassy lyrics. It's sad that most places that play Christmas songs don't include it.

[–] AliasVortex@lemmy.world 6 points 15 hours ago

Carol of the Bells absolutely slaps! I'll very much agree that it's one of the few Christmas songs I genuinely enjoy.

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 9 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

I have a secret (only to my family) hatred of consumerism infected holidays where I'm socially pressured to buy shit. I think a gift isn't genuine unless it's a surprise out of nowhere unasked. A mandatory exchange because day of year is just us indirectly borrowing each other's credit card to buy each other crap we'd get anyways ourselves, at least with my family.

My mother will ask my dad to try and get me to go to her damned church and I'll ignore them again.

Despite all that baggage, I somehow still like Xmas. I still like getting together with my family, the social aspect. Plus the food, played to death music and old movies, the decorations. It was better when I was younger and my grandparents on both sides were still alive because we'd all travel to a huge extended family meetup, but even diminished and cynical I still enjoy some of holidays.

My friends also have a sort of tradition of playing Killing Floor around Xmas. Only time we play it anymore, one of my top hours games.

[–] Spitefire@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I am not saying you're wrong about the commercialism aspect, but I think of it a little differently. Many people are uncomfortable receiving a gift without reciprocating or if there is no "reason" like a life event. The holidays are a set time to do a gift exchange, and reciprocity is more likely to be possible. I buy gifts literally all year long, but often hold on to them until Christmas time if I know the recipient will be more comfortable doing a gift exchange rather than being surprised. Part of being a good gift-giver is sussing out the type of gift receiver you are dealing with (I don't tend to give Christmas present to folks who have made it clear they hate Christmas).

[–] Captainautism@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 13 hours ago

Watching TERRIFIER 3!

[–] shittydwarf@piefed.social 10 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Fairytale of New York is the only Christmas song I will tolerate. Gives me the warm and fuzzies

[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

I used to be like that but I really dig Burl Ives these days

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] _deleted_@aussie.zone 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

But that doesn’t have to be just at Xmas.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 hour ago

But that's the only time she's still around any more.

[–] sittinonatoilet@sopuli.xyz 3 points 16 hours ago

I watch Die Hard, Jingle all the Way, and the Kenny vs Spenny xmas special.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I don't like sugary sweet Christmas movies but dig a good Christmas themed black comedy horror/slasher.

Jack Frost (1997) > Jack Frost (1998)

[–] Today@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago

I like The Family Stone. Sweet but has a little bite.

[–] Quazatron@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

This lovely Christmas tune by those wonderful lads, Blink-182. Simply delightful.

[–] thirteene@lemmy.world 1 points 17 hours ago

Christmas Infiltration Rap performed by Abed and Troy (Choldish Gambino) on Community.