village604

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[–] village604@adultswim.fan 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

That's been like every administration. The US has pretty much only cared about its own interests.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 1 points 1 week ago

Eh, I'm not sure. Pretty much everyone who actually cares about Palestine recognizes that the state of Israel and the Jewish people are separate. The only people who conflate the two are those paid to do so, and those who were looking for an excuse to express their hatred.

I doubt Israel's actions have actually created many new antisemites.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, they were intentionally missing Luke and friends so they could be tracked back to their base.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 1 points 2 weeks ago

The whisky keeps him preserved

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 7 points 2 weeks ago

You're just describing capitalism.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You see this cycle a lot in IT with off shoring.

"We can hire 10 Indians for the price of one of you," is something I've had a CIO tell me. He didn't appreciate my coworker saying, "No you can't. If you could, you already would."

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 3 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Sanderson did a decent job with Wheel of Time, though.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 0 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I don't think that a job that is going to eventually destroy your body can really be considered 'good'.

[–] village604@adultswim.fan -1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

Of course not, but when good communication is stifled by a field of eggshells, you do what you can.

Our communication on the subject is pretty good, but that alone doesn't solve the issue. It's hard to see a way to open that line of communication without them being offended

The hard part is communicating my needs without trampling on their feelings, because at a certain point the onus shifts off of me and I don't want my SO to have that pressure

[–] village604@adultswim.fan -1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

The hard part is that they've stated that the reason they don't offer to get me off when they're not up to sex is because I don't ask enough, but I don't ask enough because if they're not feeling well enough for sex then it seems shitty of me to ask for personal gratification at all.

But it's really hard to gauge when they're not feeling well enough to do anything, and when they're well enough to do it

Not that me cumming is directly relational to me seeing them naked, but it speaks to my hesitation to ask. Because I do ask to see, but they seem to intentionally conflate me asking to see with me asking for sex, even though I've explained that when I ask to see I'm literally asking to see them naked.

I have asked for them to think of a way I can ask for personal gratification without seeming callous to their feelings, but like most requests of this nature it falls on deaf ears. Probably because they're demisexual and don't really understand a cis gendered straight male on testosterone's sex drive.

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