Yeah, this is between y'all, and it can stay that way. If all parties involved are getting what they want out of the experiences they have together, I don't see any problem.
thurstylark
joined 3 months ago
Yeah, this is between y'all, and it can stay that way. If all parties involved are getting what they want out of the experiences they have together, I don't see any problem.
This is the right attitude. I would encourage folks to be a bit less goal-oriented (orgasms don't have to be everything), but you've got the spirit, and you get credit for that.
There is absolutely no shame in providing your partner with a good time, regardless of the tools involved in the process. Whether those tools are part of one's body or not matters very little in the grand scheme of things.