tburkhol

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[–] tburkhol@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

This is one of those questions where it's very easy to project one's vision of their own mortality onto the mirror of their pet. Like, for me, personally, I dread becoming so enfeebled that the tasks of daily life slip beyond my strength, to say nothing of mental incapacity, and I very much do not want to live that way. I know people who would rather lie in bed, maintained by machines, ass wiped by a stranger, for years than give up. We can't ever know what the internal life of our pets is like, can't know if they're aware of their own mortality in the way that we are, but we will be responsible for their geriatric care and end-of-life decisions. 'What I would want for myself,' is the best place to start.