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[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 hours ago

Friends was probably the wrong word. What I was really referring to is community and social events. My good friends are still there in my life, but the broader queer community is now harder to connect with, and lots of social events and meetups that are happening in my city happen without me even knowing.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 50 points 9 hours ago

Are you happy? Is your partner happy?

There's your answer

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 20 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

I experienced this when I got rid of facebook (or more accurately, when I wouldn't provide them with my ID to get my account unlocked).

But the other side of it is that a lot of the social groups that I was involved with, and a lot of my contact with my friends, was done through facebook, and my real world social life has been impacted by losing facebook.

I still wouldn't go back, but it's a first hand example of just how wide the facebook network effect can reach.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 12 hours ago

Feishin. It's a navidrome/jellyfin player.

I love it, because it has smart playlists that are actually smart! It lets me create "random" playlists from my music collection, in a way that works for me.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 20 hours ago

Transformers (the original G1 animated one).

Robocop

The Never Ending Story

The Dark Crystal

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Another problem is that cosmic expansion affects the wire itself.

Not if its mithril :P

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

Says the two day old account...

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 days ago

Again, it depends on what you mean. You're not really saying what these things are that you expect to disagree on, and that's the important bit.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 22 points 5 days ago (8 children)

It depends what you mean. Individual instances have their own approach to moderation, which influences what you will see and have access to. Some are more hands off than others. But if your "free speech" is really just looking for a free pass to hate on folk, then you won't have much luck with lemmy. There are instances that allow that, but most other instances block them.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago

DC Rainmaker

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

In theory yes, in practice, no.

Nostr uses relays. In some ways, a relay is like an instance on the fediverse. Where they differ though, is that a) relays don't talk to each other and b) users can sign up to many different relays and pull/push content to all of them.

So in practice, in order to see a wide amount of content, you need to end up connecting to multiple relays. And even though a relay does have some moderation capabilities to block content, unless every relay you use blocks the content from the bigoted account, you'll see it.

If you signed up only to a single relay, and that relay had good moderation, then in theory, your Nostr experience wouldn't be terrible, but a single niche relay like that will mean you see basically no content. And as soon as you connect to a larger public relay to get more content, you lose all of the moderation advantages offered by your first instance. Which means in practice, there is no incentive to run a well moderated instance.

And so all of the moderation ends up on the end user, who has to manually block accounts only after they appear and dump their load of hate (at which point, the bigot will just spin up another account). Some people prefer that experience, but when you're the regular target of hate, that approach just doesn't work for many folk.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 53 points 6 days ago

I absolutely appreciate them. They give me the chance to decide for myself whether to engage with a topic, depending on where I'm at. Suicide is often hard for me to deal with, due to my own family circumstances, so sometimes I want to get in and help people who are struggling, but other times, I just need to avoid the discussion for my own wellbeing. Content warnings give me the opportunity to make that choice

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