HarkMahlberg

joined 9 months ago
[–] HarkMahlberg@kbin.earth 1 points 4 days ago

Yeah that's about when I started using Word in Business Computers class.

[–] HarkMahlberg@kbin.earth 21 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I first learned how to use computers when Times New Roman was the default font in Word, but I'm not a stunted fuckup with daddy issues so I guess Calibri never bothered me.

But Mark my words, the Conservative of tomorrow will be working fervorously to return to the glory days of when Calibri was their default font, because Conservatives always yearn to return to the days of their youth, when the world wasn't so big and scawey.

[–] HarkMahlberg@kbin.earth 24 points 5 days ago (11 children)

...what's this about Calibri?

 

I'll give the author a modicum of credit, I didn't know wood banks were a thing, so at least I learned something. But gotta lambast them everywhere else.

Rural America knows the truth long before the rest of the country feels it.

Rural America wouldn't know the truth if it bit them in the ass. This is what they voted for, a silver spoon city slicker who calls functioning institutions "the deep state" before totally destroying them, to their delight.

The article is full of this coddling "woe is they" language.

Rural families don’t get to pretend. ... They also know what it means when everything gets privatized except the consequences.

What a load of baloney. Rural voters have been playing pretend my entire life, to the tune of 64% support for Trump in 2024. They've been pretending that piss-down economics works since the 80's. Maybe you mean they can't afford to pretend, but they've been happily running a deficit on that front and won't stop even if they freeze in the winter.

So I say let them freeze. They can beg for scrap wood and call it charity, because that's exactly what they wanted.

[–] HarkMahlberg@kbin.earth 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't mean like, peer pressure shame. I mean inner shame, psychological shame. The angst of not being to internally reconcile opposing value systems. Like "I want to be treated fairly, but what if someone treats me badly the same way I treat others?" Cultists, narcissists, bullies, live in fear of the answer to this question, which forms the basis of their internal shame.

The cognitive dissonance that Trump voters have is like a debt that accrues interest, and shame is a measure of the total balance of debt. The way you pay down a debt starts by acknowledging the objective reality of having that debt, and giving something up in return.

A normal person, when faced with shame of a manageable scale, handles it by apologizing for wrongdoing, offering a conciliation gift, changing the way they behave and the values they believe in, that kind of thing. Trump voters are incapable of this, as they seemingly don't acknowledge the debt in the first place. Which means their debt is always growing, the stakes are always rising. Eventually they pass an event horizon, where they believe reconciliation is no longer possible and the only two options are 1) cling tighter to the beliefs, or 2) end their lives, often violently, often with intentional collateral damage.

And we have no shortage of examples of the latter.

[–] HarkMahlberg@kbin.earth 2 points 1 week ago (4 children)

those who want you out of this country are using the exact same language

They're blind to this because in their minds, the boundary in the social hierarchy for arrest and deportation (read: kidnapping and human trafficking), is somewhere below their current ranking. All those terrible things are only meant to happen to my lessers, not me. I'm one of the good ones.

I'm sorry to hear that you speak from experience, because I speak from experience too. There were many off-ramps from the highway of crazy, and I think with each passing one it becomes more difficult for cult followers to deal with the shame of admitting they were wrong. They're in so deep now, I think they'll go to their graves with it.

[–] HarkMahlberg@kbin.earth 4 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I tried to make sense of that, uh, word salad, and kinda boiled it down to this:

What the specific levers are ... is less interesting than the fact that this entire structure of oppression can be shattered by simple, meaningful unjudgemental solidarity...

And if that's OP's point, well, I think the past year has proved that it's not true. The system of fascism is not vulnerable to solidarity and tolerance. In 2024, vulnerable voters rejected the idea that they are vulnerable and did not vote accordingly. Instead they looked at even more vulnerable people and said "Well at least I'm not that guy! That'll never happen to me because I'm not (insert prejudice here)."

We can blame the propaganda machines of Fox and Facebook and Joe Rogan, and they deserve their share of the blame, but I firmly don't believe Trump voters were merely duped. I think they already believed in a social hierarchy where, among their few luxuries, they get to look down on other people. They came to America, in their eyes the most powerful country on the planet, so regardless of how they got there, they were already more special than their homeland counterparts. They carried with them their prejudices, their views on women, their views on crime, homelessness, and joblessness, and conservative media tapped into those beliefs to form the backbone of their disinformation campaign.

the rational reasons immigrants ... might adopt rightwing/conservative beliefs

In short, they didn't "adopt" anything, they brought their own nascent bigotry with them.

[–] HarkMahlberg@kbin.earth 15 points 1 week ago

Windows Explorer is set up to ALWAYS show full file extensions, that's like a basic safety measure that really should be on by default but isn't

Drives me MAD man. Absolutely MAD.

 

Alternate headline: coward who espoused political violence tucks tail when faced with political violence.