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In the monthly server updates for lemmy.zip/piefed.zip there's a mantra that's repeated every month. I think it's wonderful and can be applied to the Fediverse as a whole.

If you’re new here - WELCOME! I hope you’re enjoying your time here :)

Just one small teeny-tiny request. The greatest gift you can give the Fediverse (Original: Lemmy.zip and Piefed.zip) isn’t money, praise, or interpretive dance (although we would absolutely accept the last one). Its participation.

Upvote the things you like. Start a discussion, debate, or ponder about whether water is wet or merely makes things wet. Make new communities if you don’t see one that fits your oddly specific niche obsession.
(We don’t judge. Well, we try not to judge anyway.)

The fediverse naturally ebbs and flows, tides of people come and go. But if you’ve found yourself oddly attached to this strange little corner of the internet? Wonderful. Help it breathe. Help it grow. Help it be just a tiny bit weirder in the best possible way.

So if you’ve gone to the effort of clicking Sign Up and proving you’re not a robot (unless you are, in which case hello and welcome to our new AI overlords), then please, I beg of you:

Stick around. Add your voice. It really does make this place better.

Original post by @Demigodrick@lemmy.zip

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[–] billbasher@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

I definitely started commenting more because of this post thanks

[–] TheGuyTM3@lemmy.ml 17 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

A'ight you won, gotta say something for today. But i hardly understand how people do manage to be social enough to post almost every day, like, they manage to make everything interesting.

It usually takes me 30-40 minutes to find the strengh to post something. How others will react to it, or is it even meaningful to post it, I find myself facing theses questions as much irl as online.

Anyways, it truly is a very nice place here, I agree with you, thanks to thoses amazing posters who never get out of inspiration. Thank you all.

[–] SarahFromOz@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

"It usually takes me 30-40 minutes to find the strengh to post something. How others will react to it, or is it even meaningful to post it, I find myself facing theses questions as much irl as online."

Just remember everybody is anonymous and the votes don't really matter!

Also I can guarantee you that no one else will scrutinize what you say as much as you do. Mostly they will not even remember!

[–] VinnyDaCat@lemmy.world 37 points 3 days ago (5 children)

I upvote a lot, but I don't always comment as much as I should. I often find that I may or may not have anything particularly new to add to the comments.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Don't worry about it, in places like Instagram and YouTube - even twitter and R*ddit - people are leaving comments like "bro said [thing previous commenter said]"

And that's fine! Let's be social and authentic and just happy that there aren't bots pretending to be people here

[–] mirshafie@europe.pub 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Yeah honestly there's no point adding meaningless chatter either. I like the comment sections here because it feels like people have let their words settle in their minds before they started mashing the keyboard.

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[–] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 156 points 4 days ago (24 children)

There's like 5 people that are firehoses of content that are keeping lemmy alive.

[–] eta@feddit.org 68 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Yeah they're doing a huge service to the Fediverse. I've had a few times where I saw posts from the same people across totally different communities to the point where I'm wondering if they're actually interested in all these subjects or just posting for the sake of it.

[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 39 points 4 days ago (2 children)

After a while, it doesn't even matter. It creates a sense of community, making this place nice for new people to join. So it's good.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 28 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I see a lot of the same people, recognize the names. I argue with some, know I'll agree with others. I like it. It harkens back to old forum days for me. Reddit may as well be anonymous1 talking to anonymous2, maybe outside of some more niche subs, but here, I can comment on a post about corn and recognize a few of the names who are also commenting.

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[–] percent@infosec.pub 5 points 2 days ago

I just realized something: When I search for something in Lemmy and get zero results, I sometimes go to Reddit and search there.

It would probably be better to make a new post in Lemmy about the thing I'm searching for. It would add content to Lemmy, and the content would be newer and fresher than the Reddit results that are sometimes 10+ years old.

[–] TronBronson@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

I’m doing my part!

[–] Boiglenoight@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I enjoy Lemmy because I tend to get a response. Despite the higher pop at Reddit, I often go ignored. It’s not unusual to have a back and forth chat with another commenter in a given thread here.

[–] transMexicanCRTcowfart@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I find it hard to keep a conversation going, maybe lack of skill on my part but usually idk what to reply and hit a dead end. So most of the time I just upvote in appreciation for taking the time to respond.

[–] zqps@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

If you don't know what to reply, then don't. Seek out communities, posts, and comments about stuff you enjoy talking about. Especially when it's a positive light.

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[–] YeahToast@aussie.zone 6 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I mean, perhaps if you're lost for content you could just give the back story to your username?

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[–] SparrowHawk@feddit.it 5 points 3 days ago

It shall be done, friends

[–] Lan@lemmy.zip 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Aw what a nice sentiment 🥰 it has inspired my first reply here

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

can confirm, this user has 0 posts and 1 comment

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Sometimes I debate on making a comment, and sometimes I simply don't have the energy to complete one. But sometimes, I think, "every comment grows Lemmy a little bit more" and decide, fuck it, I'll say something. People might like it, people might not like it, but you never know what can grow from such a little spark.

I appreciate Lemmy in this regard. We live in a world with many voices trying to drown out each other for a bit of public attention. It's enough to make some people think their own thoughts aren't worthy and to stay silent, discounting their potential contributions. Having a platform that's low-stakes, where people aren't chasing internet fame, gives many of us an opportunity to express ourselves for the sake of expressing ourselves. Having this outlet is vital for many of us. I'm glad to be a part of this community, and it is truly a community. I have no idea if anyone recognizes me, but I definitely recognize other frequent commenters. It's almost like we're neighbors, not in physical proximity, but with a shared gathering space to meet and share our thoughts.

And I love that.

[–] JstAnthrUsr@feddit.org 5 points 3 days ago
[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago
[–] GEEXiES@lemmy.world 16 points 4 days ago

This is not a personal account, it's one for a site I'm building. I know many won't like that as it might come as spammy, corporate or whatever, but I have decided to use Lemmy as a place for discussion -in a related community- and Mastodon as the one for news and updates (together with old good RSS) and I have done it because I believe in a federated web.

I'm tired of walled gardens and billionaire-run feuds -and every web loading endless MBs of scripts from a dozen of third-parties (I mean, sometimes it can be justified, like on very complex sites... but not on a damn text blog, come on!)- or not working with my OS/browser of choice... and I want the Fediverse to keep growing and become not only a viable alternative but -and here I'm just daydreaming, I know- the default.

And to this point this post made me realize that it won't happen on its own -not the way most people are, anyway- and that we/I need to put more effort on it. I'm culprit of just signing up and... well, waiting. And that won't work. So thank you from bringing this matter to me, and I'll try to do my part from now on, if not with this account with a personal one.

[–] SarahFromOz@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

OK I guess this is my time to say hi!

So, hi!

I created a community for my erotic fiction on the lemmynsfw site. This is the link: https://lemmynsfw.com/c/DominatingChloe

I would love to hear your thoughts if you are into such things.

[–] Tangent5280@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Bruh, who starts a conversation like that? I just sat down, Sarah.

[–] Sine_Fine_Belli@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Not only that, but also creating new communities too!

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 51 points 4 days ago (10 children)

Nice post, and thanks. I usually only comment and vote but have not created posts yet. That is my goal for 2026, to post at least one thing. I'm scared of the potential hateful insults I would get for posting something but I can be a dick sometimes, so I get it.

[–] Foni@lemmy.zip 26 points 4 days ago

If you commit to making a post, I commit to being nice to you and not being a jerk.I try not to be like that in general and appreciate people's willingness to contribute.

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[–] scytale@piefed.zip 45 points 4 days ago (1 children)
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[–] alp@lemmy.zip 24 points 4 days ago (2 children)

My instinct is to lurk even in this thread...

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[–] redwattlebird@lemmings.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Hi. How's your day/evening been? Learn anything new today?

[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Been great, Thanks!

[–] defn@feddit.uk 11 points 4 days ago

One valuable way to grow Lemmy: pick a feed that interests you, even if it's got almost no traffic, and just start posting on it.

Whether you source your posts from equivalent subreddits, or other social media, or from relevant articles you come across in the news, you can - through 10-15 minutes per day of direct action - quickly create a valuable feed for others.

Much like how the best way to grow an in-person gathering is to commit to just keep showing up for a while, even if it's only you. It works in the fediverse too.

[–] GratefullyGodless@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

The problem with contributing is that most of my Lemmy browsing is done while I'm on the can, and phone keyboards suck.

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[–] TragicNotCute@lemmy.world 30 points 4 days ago (1 children)

1,800 comments and counting! One of them might even be valuable to the conversation.

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[–] kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Sooo is water wet, or it just makes things wet?

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[–] ksh@aussie.zone 4 points 3 days ago

Hello everyone!

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 30 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Nobody really cares what I have to say.

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[–] radiouser@crazypeople.online 29 points 4 days ago (1 children)
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[–] lilPossum@lemmy.world 26 points 4 days ago

But I was born a lurker :(

u know what? maybe we should start actively advertising the fediverse in local hacker clubs and such.

[–] m33@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Well I agree. I post on lemmy or mastodon-like first, then only after on Reddit if I must. Many times I get a few but meaningful replies, that’s good.

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[–] housedogpartyfavor@lemmy.zip 10 points 4 days ago (3 children)
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[–] billbasher@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago
[–] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 26 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I try, mostly through comments and votes.

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[–] Applesause@mander.xyz 22 points 4 days ago

Don't tell me how to live my life.

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