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What is the thought in your head that makes your eyes wide open and bloodshot? The thought that constantly echoes in your head, but you cannot shake off.

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[โ€“] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

Nothing, I suck at sleeping and now I gave up and am browsing Lemmy

[โ€“] abbadon420@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

My son is getting older every day. Soon I won't have to read him bedtime stories any more and he won't want to cuddle all the time.

[โ€“] Binette@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The thought that I'm gonna die one day

[โ€“] grishka@friends.grishka.me 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Binette, that is in no way a certainty

[โ€“] Binette@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[โ€“] grishka@friends.grishka.me 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Binette, for the first time in history, our civilization has all the tools necessary to discover a cure for aging. It's just that this whole idea is frowned upon by so many people because humans having expiration dates is considered "normal", and therefore good, by the society.

I'm following the research and am 90% certain that there will be a breakthrough in the next decade.

[โ€“] bitcrafter@programming.dev 1 points 2 weeks ago

There are so many extraordinarily hard problems that need to be solved that I worry you are setting yourself up with false hope.

[โ€“] Melobol@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Everything is on fire. Bugs are dying, teflon - and chemicals are everywhere, micro plastics, warming oceans, invasive species, west Nile virus, ohh cancer that I might be actually developing right now, the emptiness of existence, the inability to change big things, that at the end it won't matter. Nobody cares. Me doing my part doesn't matter. Immeasurable human stupidity, global upcoming financial crisis.
These are of the top of my head. But I do know how to keep my head in the sand, so at least I can sleep well enough.

[โ€“] saigot@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Remember that there's big polluters of the world want you to believe its all already over and that you can't win. This is a strategy they explicitly employ, and you are not immune to their propaganda.

[โ€“] Melobol@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

Vote with your wallet, recycle, reuse, no single use plastics etc ... It is all a lie also.
Footprint is a lie. I do recommend his channel it is very eye opening = depressing.

[โ€“] not_me@piefed.social 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Melobol@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My therapist suggestion was to: bear witness.
That maybe our role is just to watch it burn, to acknowledge it is on fire.
So it's fine :) at least I don't have kids to worry about.

[โ€“] mantra@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago

This fits well with my philosophy: I tolerate continued existence out of a morbid sense of curiosity.