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I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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[–] lemmyout@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

One thing to note is more often people here reply with genuine comments and in good faith. There is also a lack of clever snarky comments and baiting due to the lack of karma system.

[–] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 days ago

it is so much nicer here and I agree people do more in good faith

so much nicer aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa i like it here so much better thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

This was the first thing that threw me off: people here tend to comment in good faith. I’m so used to people begging the question and generally having iron clad closed minds…from Reddit.

…but here conservations have often come to conclusion where I and another user agree to disagree amicably, or one of us moves towards the other in light of new information or a logical argument.

it’s really weird…but I hope it stays like that so I can get used to it.

[–] Cat_Daddy@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

And the lack of karma also leads to more comments, as well. I liken lemmy to what the internet used to be like, where conversations among strangers happened regularly. It's very rewarding and wholesome. Definitely not the "antisocial media" that reddit prides itself on.

[–] SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I do snark for the art, and will live and die by it.

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I couldn't resist

[–] hogmomma@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Isn't the up / downvote just like karma?

[–] Mk23simp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Karma on reddit tracks the accumulated likes and dislikes a user has gotten on all of their posts. Lemmy does not have a number like that.

Edit: What this means in practice is that on Reddit there are some users who make a lot of low-effort posts to get that karma number to go up and get a sense of accomplishment from that (even when they get a negative reputation among the other users), whereas on Lemmy that's not really a thing. Lemmy has power-users that become well-known, but they're more well-liked because they aim to gain actual reputation instead of just farming a karma number.

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

We could talli up our points but I much prefer comments under my posts the little number go up dopamine

[–] zecg@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Yes, but there's no gating based on it so it doesn't mean anything and you can turn it off.

[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

No they don't. You're lying and you know you're lying. You're just trying to suck up to the thread so you can get more karma. No one at Lemmy does that.

"lOok aT Me, i kNoW leMmY eTiQueTte. More oFteN PeoPle heRe rEply wiTH gEnuIne ComMenTs aNd In gOOd fAiTh." You're so full of it. Watch this, my comment will recieve more upvotes than you

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 weeks ago

bro forgot to add the /s

[–] octoshrimpy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Right, that's what I meant (BTW, I'm being sarcastic so I don't mean it)

[–] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm sorry, but even knowing that it's sarcastic, it comes off very snarky (it's ok though)

[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Right, sorry. But still though, hope you like lemmy

[–] Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago

yeah I like lemmy thanks

I mean, yes and no. Most of the userbase is that way. But there are some users (and instances) that tend to be massive pains in the ass. So build and curate your blocklist too.