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How Do You Find Someone? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 3 days ago by kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Hi, I promise I have no unethical intentions with this post. And forgive the cheesy stock photo; I wasn't sure what to put there.

Avoiding specifics, a friend of mine has a physically-distant, yet emotionally-close, family member go silent for no apparent reason. This person has a history of mental illness and dissapearing from time to time, but it's been a year, and my friend is worried. The family member doesn't have much of a social media presence, and we don't know anyone who could check on them in-person. Right now I only know their name and a vague idea of their location (which is in the United States).

Here's my question (and some followup questions): How can I find any information about their existence online?

Are there any public government records I could search through?

I know there's a ton of advertising data collected by phones somewhere out there. Could that be useful in some way?

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[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago

My first thought is contact police because only they have the resources to start an investigation, looking into phone data and thoroughly searching.

My second thought is if you know someone with knowledge or if you have time to read up on OSINT skills, these could help if you need to do your own search.

Maybe someone has better ideas though.