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I enjoy Lemmy because I tend to get a response. Despite the higher pop at Reddit, I often go ignored. It’s not unusual to have a back and forth chat with another commenter in a given thread here.
I find it hard to keep a conversation going, maybe lack of skill on my part but usually idk what to reply and hit a dead end. So most of the time I just upvote in appreciation for taking the time to respond.
Conversations either continue or they don’t. You shouldn’t be hard on yourself. If someone says something that makes you want to say or ask something else, great. If not, that’s fine too.
Thank you, it's easy to see it when it happens to me but if I'm the one leaving things hanging I feel like either a missed opportunity or that I'm somewhat being rude (I'm not, and most likely the other party didn't think nothing of it. I'm working on my sometimes distorted inner narrative).