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I'm new to lemmy, came from reddit. What's the lemmy etiquette like? How different is it from reddiqutte? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 weeks ago by Camille_Jamal@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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[–] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (7 children)

I'm a .ml because it was the second most popular instance when I joined, and I refuse to be bullied by other people tribalism to change to a different instance.

(Although that /s... if you tried to joke with me, then I'm sorry, I was/am too tired to understand it)

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 0 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

It's not that we think that everyone on a .ml instance is a bad person it's just that if you don't watch your back you end up talking to a bunch of people who think that mass murder and war crimes and acceptable as long as their friends are the ones doing it. And they are unfortunately also on .ml and to tar everyone with the same brush.

It's why a lot of instances are defederating which sucks for you of course because none of it is your fault.

[–] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I don't think any popular instances defederated .ml though?

[–] Jayjader@jlai.lu 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

lemmy.ml, no, but I'm fairly certain that lemmygrad.ml has been defederated from lemmy.world at least, if not others.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Lemmygrad.ml has been defederated from Lemmy.world, dbzer0, blahaj, etc, but such defederations are one-way. Lemmygrad.ml doesn't block them, so Grad users can see all that content too.

[–] Jayjader@jlai.lu 1 points 2 weeks ago

I see, thanks for the correction.

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