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I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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[โ€“] mech@feddit.org 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (42 children)

If you follow these, you'll be fine:

Don't hate on minorities
Don't post AI content outside of communities made for it
Don't insert yourself into communities where you don't belong, eg:

  • Don't comment "As a man, ..." in WomensStuff
  • Don't debate the validity of trans folks on Blahaj
  • Don't criticize China in any way on lemmy.ml

DO NOT post anything negative about Linux (unless you're comparing it to BSD, of course)

Sometimes it's a bit harder not to offend than on reddit, because posts may hit your front page from an instance that was created as a safe space for a group you're not part of, and they may react harshly to you budding in.

[โ€“] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

easier to offend

Also because marginalized people are allowed here. Will be a great lesson in not being a dick!

[โ€“] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -2 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

being marginalized and being offended by stupid shit have nothing to do with one another.

plenty of marginalized people have senses of humor and are thick skinned. it's mostly the privileged over educated types who get offended by everything and on behave of everyone.

[โ€“] AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago

"Why can't you be a good one and let me say the word around you??"

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