I haven't heard anyone use "Jap" outside my grandfather's generation โ and he fought a fucking war against them so no surprise he had some big feels there. But he's also been dead about 25 years and I've never heard the word since.
But also I don't hang out with racists, so what do I know.


I'm cis and they give me environmental stress. "Dude, I'm just trying to order lunch. Why are you sharing these inside thoughts with me?"
I wouldn't trade it, but one bad thing about being an old white guy is assholes think I'm safe to unmask around, and Christ it skeeves me out. No, man, take those fucking thoughts to your grave.